Anyone been to the T-Party for Taylor Swift?

I've been researching a lot about her concert and I'm super stoked
because I'm going October 14th in Lubbock! AHHHHHH. This is the FIRST
time she's performing here and I have ideas on what to do and gifts to
give her. But I need some help.

1.) Can you bring outside glowsticks, say that you bought from
Walmart, into the arena? I know that buying it inside is expensive.
2.) It says no cameras, but I'm pretty sure people still bring them
right?
3.) How can I find Andrea (Taylor's mom)?
4.) Does Taylor like homemade items?

In any case, tell me your experience with her Speak Now tour! I really
want to know how much fun you had. I'm SO excited to see her!